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So, I saw something on facebook just now and I decide to update a post, before preparing for class later.

So, as you see in the pictures above, such stupid issue still happen in every corner n earth, just, it’s more serious in Eastern, comparing to the Western, cause western ladies have guts and co-operative enough to fight for what they deserve. In Asian, there’re still a lot of nutty brains keep so-called ‘traditional’ inside.

These pictures remind me of something that happened on me last semester. My dance crew had family day at seaside, and when we’re back to hostel, a felo ( Uhm…I’m not sure how it spelled since everyone call them this way, they are….some sort like discipline guards in hostel ), seeing me and a few seniors wearing  pants, which the length around the knee(I remember that wore over-knee length, and deliberately stopped her car and called us just to comment on our dress code and gave us warning. SUCH AN IDIOT!!!

Can you imagine how hot Labuan is? Everyone knows it’s summer everyday in Malaysia! And, at least, we still took the limit and not wearing hot pants. Even my secondary school, which is a girl school, has the strictest discipline rule and guard in the town, set the dress codes which the length of bottom must at least at knee. Please be considerable. You can’t wear the same because of your religion, does not mean that our religion set the same rule.

I don’t think that felo can state the reason out on why we must wear it long-length. Some more, she’s the only felo who being so troublesome and picky.

Even female sexualize female, in Eastern, so what can we do? Somehow, I don’t think knee-length thingies have any to be sexualize, means, it’s really their problem who got their brains stuck, or maybe ate by zombies lol.

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It’s been a long time since my last update. I feel like wanna just abandon my blogger site LOL. I was just so lazy to update the both site( =P ) which I actually wanna update a lot products review. No excuses. Just lazy. Between these days, there were kinda lot of things happened, the biggest change will be my relationship. No, I am not a mommy or mommy-to-be LOL. Yet, I am still in relationship. Story will be shared later on.

I was thinking about that, what title should I put for this post. I had no idea cause it seems like every words cannot really fit this post well. So, I put the date as title, as my diary.

I wondered, how long should the time be to heal a person from a broken relationship. Everyone needs different length of time. I can’t even ensure how long will my period be.

And, how long is the time should a person stay in being single after a broken relationship. Western and Eastern have different concept. For western, it doesn’t matter how long should it be. It seems like you can got dumped today and get a new boyfie/girlfie the next day. While in Eastern, people think that you shouldn’t get into a new relationship so fast cause it spoilt the image and make yourself a jerk/slut in others’ eyes.

Excuse me. The matter should be, how am I actually is, not how people think who I am. You can never satisfy everyone.

When I was in form 6, which is pre-university level, in Malaysia, I got a boyfie, just call him K, who was my schoolmate, and no longer soon after he got his offer from Matriculation college. It was a long distance relationship when we started. We’d been together just 6 months long, and fights and quarrels were much more than the happy time. I was just to care about him and to scare to lose him. For me, he was too close with his girl friends over there in his college life. I thought there should be a gap between a guy and other girls when he is in relationship. I felt so insecure, and over-sensitive towards everything regards him. It was so pain in me and until I even cried in class. It took me 3 months to got healed from the pain.

After 3 months, which is the time I took to heal myself, after breaking up with K, I dated V. After the relationship turned public in my facebook. K’s friend inbox me in facebook and complained about me for being too fast to get into a new relationship. Is it counted as fast to take 3 months before getting into a new relationship? Honestly, I don’t feel so. From my mind, you can get into a new relationship anytime when you are completely ready for it. K’s friend said that he was secretly admire a girl,who he failed when he confessed to her, for a year long already. Hey stupid, stop being silly, you’re not being so-called loyal, but silly and stupid okay? And you’re turning into moron when you came over to complaining me on the matter!

Well, back to my story, even there’re a lot fights between me and V, I loved him. That’s why I able to keep in with him for 2 years long. People who know everything among me and V will really give me a huge and great prize for being so great cause it is impossible for other girls who have just a little rational in mind, to stay in for so long. I felt I’m great too LOL. I guess my followers know who V is, yes, the one who appeared in my blogger site, and the one who I was crazily in love before. No longer NOW. We’re breaking up around 2 months ago. I was really painful and nearly broken down after breaking up with V.

I am in single state now, right? But why I said I’m in relationship?

After breaking up with V, I got to know my current boyfie, T. He is my uni-mate, same age, same horoscope. He is the one who was there when I was helpless and drown in the sea of pain. I healed very fast, because of him. And we both feel the same way, which is our personalities just fit each others’ so well, within those days of my way of healing. We fall into each other. It took me not even a month to heal myself from a broken 2-year-long-relationship. I was feeling WOW as well. All because there’s C be my side when I was feeling in hell. I love his height and it does fit mine, as what my ideal boyfie’s height is ( =P ). He is a sweet guy who really good in taking care of his girlfie.

So, you know, 6 months-3month-2 years-not even one month long-current, even the same person can never have the fixed time in his/her healing way. Then, why judge others’ way?

I never told about my blog to C, because it is very long time since my last post, yet I was once think of stop my blogging work. A few days before, I opened both my blogger blog and this site, and showed me. I was so surprised on that how he found my blogs as I said, I didn’t update for so long so it’s been months my blogs’ sites not appearing on my facebook wall. Later then after asking, he said that he got to know that I have blog through the information on my facebook, and keep scrolling down on  my timeline just to seek for my blog site LOL.

This semester is a harsh and busy semester, I quite Whatever Crew, and join the other now, who is less stressful and less shitty people. Will having performance and competition soon, which is 2 weeks to go and 1 weeks to go respectively. Some assignments to be rushed for and final exam is around the corner, everything is packed. DUH……

I am trying to turn into a fully lifestyle blogger which is more causal, but not a beauty blogger which I have to keep posting reviews to keep the viewing rate and gain followers. Somehow, it doesn’t mean I will stop posting beauty stuff, as lifestyle blogger share everything!

Twinkle Like Cafe

I was so happy that I finally found a nice restaurant in Labuan.

FINALLY.

Somehow, there is another coffee shop under the restaurant which has a better renovation and decoration, but I heard that what’s sold are kinda pricey and taste so so only.

I went there around Christmas Day as you can see in the pictures, the cafe was decorated so nicely in the theme, with my friends.(I know it’s kinda late for the post  =P)

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The entrance

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The cafe is kinda small actually but it able to give a comfortable feeling like you’re at home.

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Lavender tea smells great!
Enjoying my lavender tea^^ (I never thought  that I can look so feminine)
Enjoying my lavender tea^^ (I never thought that I can look so feminine)
My chicken chop. It's quite a big portion for me.
My chicken chop. It’s quite a big portion for me.
This is not the only dessert but definitely my favourite of the day.
This is not our only dessert but definitely my favourite of the day. I’m not sure whether the ice-cream is made by the cafe workers or bought, I tasted real yam flesh bit in it. Not to forget about the mud pie(muffin?) under the ice-cream ball, it is nice but too sweet. This dessert is ideal for 2 people.

Food served here are nice as well as the surrounding. I kinda love here.

Finish simple review about the restaurant. Now it’s time for my current life.

Final exam arrived!!!!!! I had finished the first 2 papers today!

FINALLY IT’S MY TURN!

I was waiting so long for my turn or my course’s turn since final exam actually started a week ago already!

The longer you waited, more boring you felt and more stressed you are.

These few days I never got enough sleep and rest, I slept in the half of study mostly but nothing got into my brain.Suck.

Hopefully my coming papers will be okay.

New Life Opening

Same as my new life, a new blog comes.

Actually the reason why this blog is opened is because I can’t open blogger.com and I don’t sure why.

Maybe the line not fast enough?

I’d finished edit this blog setting and customizing and even homepage of blogger can’t even done opened yet =/

So nevermind, I’ll just do my update here since it’s actually the same right? =P

This picture, taken by myself by my own phone.

There’s seaside, like what you see in picture, right in front of my campus, great isn’t it?
The breeze is very cool and nice. The sand is soft and mild.

See the building over there?
That’s one of the lecture building.

It takes only 5 to 10 minutes from hostel to lecture hall by walking!

So so thanks god, the lecturers here are nice and friendly.

Our Japanese class lecturer is really a Japanese, and he is dammit strict! In fact, he’s a nice man too xD

I”m here doing well so far and there’s once my schedule is so packed and those few days I didn’t even able to stay in my hostel to do anything I want. Those few days were like…….woke up, tidied and prepared myself well, went out then maybe whole day, even if I was back to hostel once or twice, also just fro bathing and tidied things needed, then went out again, then back at night, sleep. That’s all! I was tired until gonna fed up.

This is me, in the library, with specs on.

I’m falling in online shopping since I came here. There’s no much choice on attire, and skincare and makeup thingies here in Labuan. Ironically, super many choices in Kota Kinabalu, which takes 3hours by boat(plus cars). The only way to get the stuff I want is online shopping, but the shipping is killing me when I buy a big amount of stuff and most shop don’t provide free shipping to East Malaysia, so so so dammit….

Will post about my experience of the online shopping and I was surprised to found that there’re still people who don’t know about online shopping and never have an experience on it! I bet my post will be useful for them, and of course, not to forgot about tutorial post and review post. I feel so excited now about that’s new in my wardrobe to share with you all!

I turned into a fashionista here! I’m not sure why. I used to be not so into fashion instead of beauty stuff but I look on more to attire instead of beauty stuff and I became a shoes lover!!!!!!!! I’m so craze about shoes and even my friend said that I’m turning into a centipede already!

I went for a seafood at Mawilla with friends a few days before and met a toodler cat which is super cute and playful!

Here’s the picture of us before leaving!

The food was so nice and not really pricey.

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We went to seaside before heading to seafood restaurant.

I study multimedia here, and now learning photoshop. I feel like playing when doing my home task mwahahaha xDDDD  Play pictures and editing them. 

One of the outcome of learning ps.

I got many things to be shared about but it’ll make this post bored if I put all in here, right?

Gonna stop here for another home task.

Bye<3